How to have great phone sex: 5 expert tricks revealed
It’s a question we hear asked by new adult phone chat hosts time and time again: how can I provide great phone sex?
With COVID stopping many of us from getting psychical, phone and face time sex are more popular than ever. But that doesn’t mean giving good telephone sex is easy.
Luckily, we’ve called in the help of our top call girls to reveal 5 secrets to satisfying paying callers. So, whether you’re a dirty talk virgin or you just need a little help perfecting your technique, read on for advice from the experts.
1. Perfect your sexy voice.
Obviously, customers can’t see you when you’re on a call. So, to have great phone sex, you need to create a sense of intimacy using nothing but your voice.
Our girls recommend recording yourself saying some naughty things before you take calls from customers. That way, you can check how you sound and perfect your tone.
According to Jean Berko Gleason, co-author of Psycholinguistics, a good sexy voice should be “warm and inviting”. Make sure you avoid talking through your nose though. Nasal tones are the ultimate mood killer.
2. Get clued up on different kinks, fetishes, and fantasies.
When it comes to sex, no two men are the same. Learning about different turn-ons is therefore the trick to better phone sex with more of your clients.
Granted, some customers’ sexual desires may be very far from your own. And you should never say or do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. But the best phone sex operators are the ones who keep an open mind.
Don’t be afraid to ask guys what they’re into at the start of the call. Who knows, you might enjoy where customers’ personal fantasies take you.
3. Pick somewhere quiet for calls.
If you want to enjoy the hottest phone sex with your clients, they need 100% of their attention on you. And you need 100% of your attention on them.
So, make sure you work from a room in your house that’s quiet and distraction-free. That means a room with no televisions or radios playing, no pets running about, and no other phones around. Because nothing kills a sexy mood faster than unwanted background noise.
4. Read some erotica.
Learning how to describe body parts and sexual acts in a way that heightens your customers’ pleasure is an art.
The more customers you chat to, the better you should get at dirty talk.
But when you’re just starting it, it pays to pick up some tips from the masters of naughty descriptions, by reading erotic novels. Think Fifty Shades of Grey by E L James. Or The Boss by Abigail Barnette.
5. Have fun.
Finally, like any other kind of sex, dirty calls should be fun. So, ignore those who say you shouldn’t mix business with pleasure. And try to enjoy yourself when you’re working on adult chat lines.
It could even help to boost your repeat business. After all, our top sex chat hosts say that guys like it when they sound like they’re having a good time too.
Ready to enjoy phone sex?
Now you know how to give great phone sex, it’s time to start making money from it. Register with Chatrecruit as an adult chat host today to get on a reputable chat site and benefit from the best pay and support.